free passes

Why does a man (I use the term loosely) think that once he's had it once he has a lifetime free pass to have it whenever he wants? I get a text last night from one of those perpetrators asking "what's up with u?" and telling me "it would be nice to see u." We all know what that means: I want some. Now, if I haven't called you since the last time (which in this case was quite some time ago) then clearly I don't want it...or you. I know that in the past I have fallen for the "would be nice to see you" bit thinking that they really felt that way..that they wanted to really just see me. Silly me.